We were halfway through a 'quiet night in' that was anything but quiet where I'd been challenged to get through all of the best woman on top sex positions in one night. I'll be honest, the Erotic Accordion below for reference had me stumped. But as a long-term sex blogger and fan of all things kinky, I'm no more going to give up in the face of a sexual challenge than a banker would turn down a bonus. I'm glad we kept at it, and I feel a bit guilty that I'd been rude about this one to begin with, because when we got the angle just right, this position gave a deep penetration and achingly hot sensation. I felt powerful, in control, and about as dominant as I get without brandishing a whip.
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When your partner of any gender! If your partner has a vulva, they're more likely to orgasm, too, since they can control exactly where and how hard you hit that region of the internal clitoris known as the G-spot. You should also change up exactly how your partner rides you—because even though cowgirl is a gift from the gods, it will grow stale if you do it every time. Not to worry.
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To him, nothing could be steamier than a sexy woman calling the shots; so don't be shy. Just read these passion pointers, then climb on top of your cutie and enjoy the ride. Begin in the deceptively down-to-earth woman-on-top position on a made bed. You're in complete control here. The fresh angle of this position gives you a sweet new sensation while your man gets a killer view.