My partner and I are in our 60s and got together after long-term marriages. Although we are not married, we live together, share children and grandchildren and have built a very nice life together. He has always travelled a lot for work and exuded a sense of mystery. A year ago, he lent me his phone and I bumped into risque naked photos of him and a woman taken when he was supposedly at a work do. I was devastated and confused. He confessed to having led a secret life while we have been together: attending sex parties and finding partners, often couples, with whom he would have sexual relationships.
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By Terence Watts. The question might never have occurred to you until this minute but even as you think about this, you can probably work it out. Now, because you are reading this book, it is likely that you are unhappy with your situation but the important thing to take on board at this very moment is that you actually chose it. Argue if you must, but as this chapter unfolds you will begin to recognise that this is a great truth and understanding it can change your life.
The Secret Life of Love and Sex: Making relationships work and what to do if they don't
A look at the realities of life as a sex worker in New Zealand in , 15 years after prostitution was legalised. She is your archetypal escort; pretty, charming and very good at her job. She has a range of clients who she sees for dinner dates, the 'girlfriend experience' and a raunchier, 'girlfriend experience plus'. M Kayla has worked on the streets for over 40 years. She has seen the changes that decriminalisation brought and she is out and proud to be a sex worker.
Just as a relationship needs love and sex to nurture it, so there are times when lies and secrets are necessary too. Yet it's an easy trick to learn and here's your chance, because all these things and lots more are covered in vivid detail: Why personality matters and how to work it out; Understanding the amazing differences between men and women; How to get off to a good start; How to get back on track when things go wrong; Dealing with sexual difficulties - easily; Handling a break up by taking charge and ending it elegantly. Sharing your life with another is not an easy task - in fact the surprise is not so much that it often doesn't work but that it can be spectacularly successful! From page one onwards, you will begin to gain a stunning insight into how you can find and keep the love you've always wanted. Written by an expert in relationships and human nature, this book can set you on your way to true happiness.