My First Time is a column and podcast series exploring sexuality, gender, and kink with the wide-eyed curiosity of a virgin. We all know your "first time" is about a lot more than just popping your cherry. From experimenting with kink to just trying something new and wild, everyone experiences thousands of first times in the bedroom—that's how sex stays fun, right? This week, we're talking to Imogen Dive about the moment she realized she was bisexual—and her first time with a girl. You can subscribe on iTunes , Google Play, and Stitcher.
1) Be straight up about your straightness
How Do Lesbians Have Sex? 28 Tips, Techniques, Positions, and More
As far as first time lesbian experiences go, experimenting with someone of the same sex is thankfully less taboo than it's ever been. More recently, in a study of college students, 12 percent of men and 25 percent of women whose last hookup partner was of the same sex as them considered themsleves straight. Exploring what it means to prioritize your pleasure is nothing to be ashamed about. We asked women of all different sexual orientations about their first time lesbian experiences and same-sex encounters. Here are their stories:. In our early 30s, my husband and I decided to open our marriage to some sexual exploration and went on a date with a couple. We immediately hit it off.
Lesbian sex tips for your first time having girl-on-girl or vulva-on-vulva sex
Your first time having lesbian sex , or girl-on-girl slash vulva-on-vulva sex, can be pretty nerve racking and daunting. No matter how confident you are, or how much lesbian porn you've watched which FYI, is not realistic AT ALL all vaginas are different and like to stimulated in different ways. So if you're in need of some tips on how to have sex with a girl or vulva-having person, here's what you need to know - from how to beat the nerves, to which lesbian sex positions to try. I know you're thinking,"How on earth will I know what to do?
Hello ladies. Which is acceptable only you approach this sacred sex with the respect it deserves, and full honesty to all parties involved, including yourself and ideally your broader circles. Lesbians and bisexual women are not playthings, or fetishes, nor are we fun experiments to try on and then ditch when a more socially-acceptable penis-sporting human comes along. Lesbians and bi girls are people with feelings and learned wariness around straight chicks with questionable intentions. Full stop.