When I met my current partner a year ago, I was at my fattest, about lbs heavier than he is, making our sex the most drastic in terms of size difference relative to my past partners. It works just great and I love it. This brings me to what I feel is one of the most important parts of enjoying sex as a fat woman:. Your partner knows, and guess what? He or she wants to have sex with you.
Fat Sex: What everyone wants to know but is afraid to ask.
What Everyone Needs to Know, But Is Afraid to Ask About Fat Sex - Everyday Feminism
I was 16, a size 14 and it was —long before body positivity hit the mainstream or my Tumblr feed. Now, as a year-old woman wearing a size 20, sex has changed year after year as my body has gotten bigger and the dating pool has gotten smaller. Before fucking someone new, I feel the need to address my fatness before we meet. I think this is what some guys were hoping would happen too. Avoiding belly touching makes it all the more obvious that the belly is there. If you want to fuck me, fuck all of me.
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Absolutely not! Bigger girls have amazing sex all the time. However, size can sometimes cause certain positions not to work so well. Instead, your man enters you from behind.
Originally published on Persephone Magazine. Please note: Fat sex is a very big issue heh. Because my area of expertise is limited to sex with size difference as a woman with a vagina, I chose not to explore other areas of fat sex, such as the mechanics of two fat people having sex or trans fat sex for women without vaginas.