I can't really pinpoint why; it was just there one day, that disgust over having to kiss him, and I couldn't shake it to save my life. It was particularly odd because for our first few years together, his kisses were toe-curlingly sexy and lovely. But now they just seemed heavy on the saliva, and light on the zing. Fast on the heels of this realization, my sex drive left entirely. Just vanished. It ghosted me like a bad boyfriend.
I’ve Finally Figured Out Why I Don’t Want to Have Sex With My Husband
I’m not attracted to my husband, and I don’t want to have sex. Now what?
Life happens, which means dry spells happen, am I right? No biggie—unless that dry spell morphs into more of a, well, severe drought. Wondering why don't I want to have sex anymore? Factors like stress, time, and kids can seriously zap your sex drive. That said, you shouldn't just give up on your sex life forever.
If You Think Sex With Your Husband Is a Chore, You're in Trouble
Just take a look at the comments to see the debate over what is reasonable for a husband to expect of a wife and vice versa. We welcome your thoughts. I love my husband, but when it comes to sex, he has been, and still is, a year-old boy. At first I was a willing participant, but after years of his moping, cajoling, screaming, and disrespect, I lost interest.
Mar 13, Marriage , Sex , Spiritual Connection. Can you relate to any of the women above? Like them, do you love your husband, want to stay married, but struggle with sex? Do you yearn for physical and emotional closeness with your mate, yet shun their intimate advances?