Let's face it: It's incredibly sexy to observe someone else experiencing sexual pleasure. When partners are truly tuned in to each other, oral sex can be just as arousing and pleasurable to give as it is to receive. But to get the most enjoyment from giving oral sex to another person, one needs to be exceptionally present during the act. If you are giving your partner oral pleasure simply as a means to an end, then you probably won't enjoy it as much. Getting into the mindset that you are pleasuring your partner for your own stimulation as well can be a real game-changer. These oral sex tips will teach you how to have passionate oral sex that's mutually pleasurable:.
10 Oral Sex Tips to Make It More Enjoyable for Everyone
How To Give Passionate Oral Sex: A Guide For Men & Women
Penis-in-vagina sex is not the be-all-end-all of sex. Oral sex can be just as pleasurable — if not more so — than penetrative sex. You know whose genital juice tastes like cookies and cream? We all have a taste down there. Avoid garlic, onions, asparagus, and cabbage, which reportedly make for a less-than-pleasant flavor. Any skin-to-skin contact with the genitals can spread STIs. The same goes for contact with vaginal, penile, or anal secretions.
Bodies are different. We all have our own unique odor. Everything from what we eat to the soap we use can affect it. A quick shower is usually sufficient to keep things fresh down there. No one wants something smelly in their face.
First step: Stop thinking of it as a job. Done correctly, oral sex can be satisfying for both of you — so long as you follow this sage advice. Everybody wins!