These feelings built up over four years, and when we were drunk one night, I told her. She said she felt the same. Months later we met and chatted, but the net result is, because of her friendship with my wife, nothing could happen. She is now in another relationship and has moved on. Add to Chrome.
I’m in love with my wife’s best friend and it is making me ill
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First: if you're married, you should understand that an attraction to another person, while a normal human reaction, is not something that should be taken any farther. Seek some marriage counseling; you're committed to your wife, and aren't available to carry out an attraction to another person. Second: why would you tell your wife and her friend that you're attracted to the friend if you haven't acted upon it? Lots of married people are attracted to others briefly for various reasons, but never act on it, and never speak of it. I could be way off here, but my guess is that you've either already.
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My wife and I have been married for nearly 20 years. We have three teenage children. My wife became uninterested in our sex life about 10 years ago.
Focus on your marriage first — and deal with it kindly. Then decide what to do next. These feelings built up over a few years, and when we were drunk one night, I told her. She said she felt the same.