Just last week, I was talking with this Latina lady and out the blue she straight asked me if I was single. Based on my single status she drew her own conclusion and pulled no punches with her theory. I had to take this subject up with my besties immediately! Listen, there are very few things about Ms.
The Talk HBO’s Insecure Should Have Had About Oral Sex in the Black Community
Personal and Social Influences Regarding Oral Sex Among African American Female Adolescents
Now, now be calm everybody. Sex is normal. There is nothing wrong with having sex with consent. Nothing wrong with it at all. Why does it make us feel shame when there is nothing to be ashamed about? Hell to the nawl.
Oral Pleasure: The Joy of Giving
To identify personal and social factors associated with performing oral sex among female adolescents. More than half reported performing oral sex. Controlling for age, performing oral sex was associated with relatively higher sexual sensation seeking, any UVS in past 60 days, relatively lower self-efficacy to refuse sex, and having peer norms supportive of risky sexual behaviors. Given the potential for epidemic spread of orally acquired STIs to populations of female adolescents residing in communities with high rates of STI prevalence, this initial research provides guidance for intervention development and expanded research efforts. A mong sexually active adolescents , oral sex has emerged as normative.
While this was the sentiment of the religious and older generations , in , oral sex is just not a taboo to younger Black people. Some Black women believe that having semen in your mouth is nasty, unclean, or just too freaky. Where women disagree on this method is that some say it can be seen as rude or ruin the mood for men, but women who practice it feel turned off by the idea of having semen in their mouth or feel that should be saved for their husband or at least serious boyfriend. They feel it is a natural progression of the act of oral sex, while others feel that swallowing is an intimate act and privilege only for a man who puts a ring on it. Again, stigma may be put on the woman who does not hold these same beliefs.